Ye mat karo, isse aise karo, this is not correct,
you could have done better if you have worked just a little harder, you are
intelligent – you should have taken science … blah blah blah … sounds familiar?
Well every one of us have heard such advices from every one possible around us,
be it our parents, siblings, relatives, cousins, friends, teachers, mentors
etc. Though we may have felt irritated and even ngry on most of these comments,
but will be always these couple of guiding words which will stuck with us and
have such deep impact that it will end up shaping our life.
It happened to me too when I was at the juncture of
taking one of the most important decisions of my life. Moreover, it came from a
person who I don’t remember telling me anything else in my life ever and have
always supported and respected my decisions.
This happened when I decided to apply for science
in class 11 as most of my friends were doing so. Well it doesn’t mean that I was
not good in science and was amongst the top 3 students in my school in science
in class 10. But somehow I did not enjoy science as much as enjoyed economics
and commerce and probably deep down wanted to go down that path.
My dad after knowing about my decision to take
science was having a casual chat me with and during the discussion and made a very
casual remark ‘everyone should do what they really want to do and not just
because their friends / colleagues are doing’. Well though he never told me directly
that I should not be taking science, but somewhere that remark stayed with me leading
me to do a lot of introspection and finally I did what I should have done the
first time – Apply for commerce. Well a lot of you may think, it wasn’t a big
deal, I could have changed the stream post my class 12.But then if the foundation
is strong, the building can resist all the turmoils!
I was able to do what I wanted and should have done
and I am very happy to say – Thank You Dad, you mean the world to me, having
always guided and supported me in whatever I wanted to do.
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